Seeking advises from different angles….. Bringing your marital affairs to social media in order to seek advise, at the end of the day they misled you….
Exposing about your marital affairs to zayd and bakr……
Lastly, (Vital point)
How much more have you learn about your religion and aqeedah??…..
When you yourself refused to know about the aqeedah of the salaf(pious predecessors) how will you know wheather to accept an innovators or a sympathizer’s proposer…… Or the chameleon people hiding under the shield of salafiyyah….. Those that innovate into the deen that has been completed, and those that can be mannerless to their Lord by supporting filthy manhaj(methodology) for worldly sake….Did you think they won’t toy with your heart too….. Marrying someone you can’t trust with your religion,how did you expect him to handle your heart??…..
Sisters wake up, don’t let them fool you with big grammar,certificate and love story….. Test the aqeedah and religion of your intending spouse, once he compromise his religion because of you….trust me, my sister he will compromise your love for the sake of worldly affairs ….. Because anytime he see someone that’s more better than you in beauty or qualification, it’s either he divorce you or start maltreating you….because he, from the beginning he is hiding under the shield of salafiyyah….. So they got you brainwashed so as not to marry sohih brother by tagging them as salafy thugs, ill manners and all sort of names just because they hate the path of the salaf(pious predecessors).
Infact, some would tell you lies that, they won’t marry two wives because their brain is full of western ideology which you too also want. Some years after Nikkah, they want to marry second wife…. You will start frustrating your life and at the end you got divorced.
Majority of this chameleon people I.e those with bad intention that are pretending to be Sunni, you will hardly see them amidst of the salafiyyah(people with correct creed) rather they prefer the so deviant callers because their sayings will suit their personal interest. We seek Allah’s refuge.
Although shayton can come in between the marriage of two pious heart (which is rare), that doesn’t mean they are bad but that can just be a test for them …. May Allah safe us from the fitnah of divorce.
May Allah bless our brothers upon salafiyyah (those with correct creed)..they will not pretend whom they are to you… May He grant them more understanding and istiqomoh…and provide them a good spouse.
May Allah ease the affairs of sisters….make their marriage an happy one and provide them a good spouse.
Written by: Bint Abdulghoniyy Ummu Mujaheed, may Allaah preserve her.